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READY OR NOT?? 😓

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Hi, welcome!! I just remembered a conversation I had with someone sometime in school and I thought it's worth sharing. There is this young lady I met,I can't really remember what we were saying prior that but it kind of lead to marriage talk. I asked her what she would like to do after school and she said,"marriage is the next thing". I was still trying to process what she meant by that really and she asked me the same question. I told her I would love to do my masters, take some professional exams and ultimately do something productive with my life and career. She just looked at me strangely like what I said was impossible. She said that is too much for a woman and that would scare off a man. I was just left in awe that someone in this age and time thought like that. I gradually kept my distance from her because I wouldn't want someone with that kind of ridiculous mindset around me. I wouldn't want to attribute her reason for such a mindset to her geographi

TALES OF BEING FEMALE. 😐

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I'm just really pissed by a lot of things. I have read so many cases of rape on the internet so much that it's just really irritating. The worse part is that some people are trying to justify the act. Right now being a female is a huge struggle. You don't blame people that say they just want male kids. They know the way life is difficult for females. In this society, females are expected to live within some constraints. Telling females to do things in the right 'way" so as to be pleasing to the society. How about we teach the male counterparts the same things. "Don't be too successful, no one would marry someone that is more successful than they are" "Don't be too ambitious, you won't have time to be a wife and mother" "Don't dress in a suggestive manner, they will rape you" So many "DON'Ts" that I can't even remember right now. It's like we are meant to please everyone else without thinkin

IS FEMINISM, MISANDRY?

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Hi welcome to my blog once again!! Today's topic is a very controversial one, many don't even like hearing about but it's now part of our everyday life. I have seen so many online"feminist" who hide under the facade of FEMINISM to display misandry. It is also terrible that majority of them don't even understand the meaning of Feminism, they just pick up someone's ideology and just carry it on their head more than the person. Tragic right? This acclaimed "feminists" come online, show their hate for men and praise their fellow women but behind closed doors, they do unimaginable things to these same women. There is also an unhealthy competition between women and men, which is not meant to be so. The  only competition you should have is your self. If the energy they exert on pulling men down is put into self development/discovery, they will not have the time to have unnecessary hate towards men talk less of expressing it.  Feminism has a proble