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BODY IMAGE POSITIVITY. πŸ€—

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Hi guys!! Hope you all are doing great. The month is almost over and I can't believe it. I remember first of September like it was yesterday. 😳Today's post is something many people will easily relate to. You're probably insecure about a thing or two about your body. Or even a lot. It could be very hard moving pass that stage especially when you were bullied once because of that. 
Personally, I didn't and still don't like some things about my body. But how I coped with that was accepting it. For example, my face. I was teased about my pimples when I was younger, I remember crying so much if you said anything about my face. I even stopped looking into a mirror cause it reminded of the "plague" on my face. Later on, I got to accept it and if someone said something bad about it, it never got to me. That's just how it is. You remove the power they have over your insecurities. They just end up looking stupid for what they said. It's takes time to love so…

HOW TO MOVE ON FROM A FRIENDSHIP BREAKUP. πŸ’”πŸ˜’

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Hi lovelies!! Hope you have been having a great time. It has been quite a "rainful" month and is also cold especially at night. Make sure you cover yourselves appropriately and not just waiting for "weather for two" πŸ˜‚.  Let's just get right in to the topic of the day.The title had given away some of it but definitely not all of it. So if you have been struggling on how to move on from a friendship breakup, keep reading πŸ˜‰.1. Acceptance: This is definitely the first step because if you don't you will just keep hurting yourself. It wouldn't be easy of course but it just has to happen. Even if it means crying your heart out (if you're the emotional type), do so. You can also express your feelings in an artistic way, either drawing, writing or singing. 2. Check your self: If it's someone you never thought would end ties with you, it would be harder, trust me. There is a tendency the person has moved on and is happy when you clearly have not. Your m…

SEPTEMBER!! COUNTDOWN TO DECEMBER. ✨

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Hi guys!!! Welcome to the month of September (although I'm 8 days late but better late than never right?)and I hope you have been having an amazing week. πŸ˜€ I am so excited about the new month because you know, it's the beginning of ember month and that means Christmas is getting closer. If you didn't know, Christmas is my favorite holiday and I just love the carols. I love the whole decorations and just the season of love. Also, I get to see my cousins and just spend them with them. I'm Igbo and it's kind of like a tradition to go to the village and just know where you come from. Okay enough of the Christmas rant, this blog post is going to be really short because I just didn't want to talk much (well, technically write). I just wanted you guys to know I'm still breathing O2(you know as I science student, I gat to flex it a little 😌) thanks be to God for that. I hope you guys have an amazing month ahead and just keep living life as it comes. Also my siste…

WHY I STARTED MY BLOG. ✍️

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Hi guys!! Welcome back to my blog. I haven't been posting contents here and this blog is kind of having cobwebs. Well I'm here to curb it (peep my dry punπŸ˜‚). I really do hope you all have been great because I have been. Well not really but that's another story for another. This is the last day of August and tomorrow is the beginning of the ember month, I pray the new month brings new tidings and blessings into our lives. ✨So before I get into what's for today, I will like to know if you would like to read more story times. I realized my life had been quite interesting and I feel I could share them with you also. Also for me to read them here when I grow old. Today I will be telling you my reason for starting this blog. Right from when I was little I was great at imagining things and just making up scenerios in my head. I still do especially if I'm having difficulty in sleeping. Also I see myself as a deep thinker. I remember in secondary I would just stare out my …

READY OR NOT?? πŸ˜“

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Hi, welcome!!
I just remembered a conversation I had with someone sometime in school and I thought it's worth sharing. There is this young lady I met,I can't really remember what we were saying prior that but it kind of lead to marriage talk. I asked her what she would like to do after school and she said,"marriage is the next thing". I was still trying to process what she meant by that really and she asked me the same question. I told her I would love to do my masters, take some professional exams and ultimately do something productive with my life and career. She just looked at me strangely like what I said was impossible. She said that is too much for a woman and that would scare off a man. I was just left in awe that someone in this age and time thought like that. I gradually kept my distance from her because I wouldn't want someone with that kind of ridiculous mindset around me.
I wouldn't want to attribute her reason for such a mindset to her geographic…

NEW MONTH SHENANIGANS. 😌

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Hi!! So excited to be writing here again. I know I promised to post some of the stories I have written but I'm really battling procrastination right now. Help me!! πŸ˜₯Happy new month!!  This is August and I'm like, "were we not just saying, Happy new year some time ago". The year is super fast and I'm sure it's because we don't have much doing (speaking for myself). If i had school and all going on right now, I will probably not be writing here. But it's a very terrible thing happening around the world. I really hope we have been keeping safe because I do need all of you at the end of this dark tunnel πŸ˜€. Also, I never really fancied this month. To me, it was a "boring" month. But then, someone special is born in this month so now it's kind of special to me . So this is a birthday shout out. πŸ€— To those born this month, I pray God blesses your new age.  Just recently a big reality show started airing and as usual it got terrible backlash. F…

WHO MISSED ME? πŸ˜…

Hello my beautiful readers.I have been so lazy this couple of weeks and I just keep procrastinating about writing a post. The funny part is that I have lots of contents I have written just for me to edit and publish. But now I'm back!! I have really not been doing much while away. I have really just lost the vibe for school, like I'm done. I still have thoughts of school reopening and how I will cope if school just miraculously opens but with the way it's going, it's "peace till next year ✌️". I have being writing some short stories and I would love to share them with you soonest.  I have been planning my life. I'm sure you're wondering how I am doing that in the middle of a pandemic. But I have realised life will still go on whether we like it or not. This phase will pass so you have to be ready for it. Also I'm a habitual thinker, I am always thinking of something, like literally. The woman I would become, my success, primarily my future. Some time…